[quote name='Kaze Araki']You're confusing things for the X times.
1. I was refuting your specific claim;
...its support of dictators in the Middle East as long as they 'help' the US in achieving some of its foreign policy goals are just some examples of their rather realist approach...
by pointing out that American's policy in the Middle East is Israel first, America second. Not only that it is stupid, it is also unrealistic.
2. Just because the policy is Israel first - America second, it doesn't imply that America doesn't get any benefit from such policy. The crux of the matter however, remain the same; American's policy in the Middle East is unrealistic. And this notion are supported by overwhelming evidences (put forth by Realist scholars such as Mearsheimer, Walt and Scheuer).
3. I'm not refuting any of your other vague opinions because it is hard to pin them down into the specifics. However, within your "mostly realist" claim, your opinion are clearly false when you included American's Middle East policy within it.[/QUOTE]
What the hell is unrealistic? If something isnt Realist, then it has to be something else, like Liberal or Neo Realist or Neo Liberal or Neo Conservative or some other IR theory. A specific policy cant just be 'nothing'.
And your Mearsheimer book seemed to have attracted a lot of criticism from both scholars to government officials, on both the original paper as well as the book saying they have been misquoting, vastly overestimating the Israel lobby, leaving out contradicting evidence, and a whole bunch of other criticism that make me doubt the value of this book. The fact that one of the people endorsing it is Osama Bin Laden doesnt exactly help either.
As for your CIA source, well, he never stated that the Israel lobby dictates the entire US policy in the Middle East. He just said that America's one sided approach to Israel is a grievance that promotes extremism and terrorism in the Middle East.
To be clear though, Im not saying that the Israel lobby isnt powerful and that the Israel policy isnt negatively impacting US interests in the Middle East, Im just saying that it A) doesnt dictate all or most of the US policy in the Middle East and B) the Israel lobby is powerful, but not that powerful, and most certainly not the only relevant or powerful lobby group with interests in the Middle East. Big Oil companies, the Saudi's, etc also have big interests there and Im quite sure they also dictate a great part of the US foreign policy in regards to the Middle East.
Source: Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Israel_Lobby_and_U.S._Foreign_Policy
On a separate note, maybe this topic about Isreal and American foreign policy and all the IR theories deserve their own threads, instead of that we continue to keep derailing this one.