Would I really change inwardly? Well, its about changing your attitude towards it that is the first and hardest part. If you get passed that I believe that one will eventually change her or his way of being. And yes I really do think i would change. At first, yes, it would only be outward as I am a stubborn person, but after a while I believe i would accept it and change. If it despite that wouldnt work for me, I would talk to whoever wanted me to change, and even then I am already changed. Do you follow or am I just rambling..? I mean, after I TRIED something, i will always carry that experiance with me, and that experiance is something that usually changes people, even if its only to the tinyest change..
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But I understand your ramblings
There is a problem with that though and here comes a question you will probably not be able to confidently answer:
Have you ever done it consciously? Have you ever actually consciously changed what you are for someone?
Because you hear it all the time: trying.
Trying leads to frustration, frustration leads to stress, stress leads to anger and despair.
Everyone wants to believe they can change but there are only a select few that actually do.
If you want my advice and I am not saying this to be bastard but to save you frustration: Turn it into a compromise game.
Example:
You like cuddling his arm, so you agree to watch football with him if you can cuddle his arm.
You dont even have to tell them thats the idea in your head, but this way you can rightfully admit that football has you interested cause you get to cuddle his arm!
That kind of thing works... however theres a problem with it too... dont ever use it during an argument:
THE ONLY REASON I WATCH FOOTBALL WITH YOU....
Thats bad
True its deception. But you both get something you want. No stress, No trying, no problems. [MENTION=1257]Xiga[/MENTION]