I can't believe this conversation is still going on. Since when do adults need to change their pace of life? I have to work 5 days a week in a fast paced environment, so I'm usually fast online. I like forums to meet people and on occasion, check out some of the other stuff. I say... if the forum doesn't offer what you want, either change what you can or find another one. No one is going to lose sleep if someone hasn't gotten over something... hence, people moving on with their lives. Sorry-I had to say something. And now-back to the regularly scheduled program.